In this episode we talk with Brian Rassi. He is the CEO and founder of Enstigate, an Entrepreneurial success engine and consultancy, and Brian is author of the book: Lack or Success.
Brian lost his life partner of over fourteen years Imelda. She was his exotic inspiration, his turnaround artist, his mystic, his spiritual guide, his life sherpa … and then he found himself without her in 2017.
It might have been easy for Brian to fall back to old ways. To think about past struggles and repeat those, but Brian knew this experience was not to be feared, that Imelda was still in and with him, and that he needed to embrace her passing as an even stronger source of inspiration, to become even better.
In this interview we explore Brian’s journey in life and loss, and discuss his secrets and methods to transcend from Less Than and Lack to Success.
Brian – So when you lose something like that, and you built your life around this person, and this is what a lot of people on this call and podcasts are probably going through right now, when you go into grief: Your identity is not just you, when you build something with someone, it’s you and them and so when you take them out of that equation, this is what happened to me was my identity was shattered. I didn’t know who I was: physically embodied, emotionally, spiritually. I did not who who I was.
Brian – And that’s how you feel right after grief. And my personal viewpoint is you’re going through a journey like “Who am I now?”, “Why am I going through this journey?”, “Why now?”
Brian –Bruce Lipton, a well known biologist, speaker, author, he did studies about the brain and from the ages of zero when you’re in the womb, to about seven, that’s when you get programmed by everyone around you. Every time you hear something from your Mom and Dad, a babysitter, TV, iPad, iPhone, your brothers and sisters, your aunt and uncle’s,.. You are programmed, literally a sponge into the unconscious mind. So all those thoughts, all those things go into your mind. And that creates your belief system and identity. Now most of the thoughts and learnings are unconscious of this point. Some 95 to 99% of all our thoughts every day are unconscious, meaning only one to 5% of our thoughts are conscious, like now here I’m consciously talking to you, Thomas.
Brian – Because when you actually go through life, and you are on social media or listening to this, all of a sudden it’s triggering all these memories, some are conscious, subconscious or unconscious, and it goes to the filing cabinet, it pulls up that content, and then it gives a physiology, feeling and emotion associated with that time. And then that’s how you behave in the world. And this is what they call triggering.
Brian – Now, a lot of times when people focus in on the Lack, you’re just going to attract more and more lack. So if you say I Lack. I’m really lonely at this time, and I want to get into a relationship really quick. Well, guess what? You’re going to attract someone just as equal as you are at that time, which is probably not where you want to be. If you’re broken, and you want to fill that void, most likely, the person I’m going to attract is going to be broken.
Brian – When you go on this journey of self mastery, you’re like, literally healing everyone around you, you’re healing yourself, you’re healing your kids, your future partner or spouse. You’re healing, so much going on this journey, and you’re learning so much in this growth process. Because this is what ultimately was the inkling of waking you up to the situation. You didn’t ask for this, but it is what it is, and you can leverage it for good, growth and more for all around you.
Brian – MAGIC is an acronym. And the stands for Multi-dimensional Alignment with God’s Infinite Creation. And what she really meant is, and this goes back to memory, we talked about fear of failure, fear of success, you take a step back, and you have lack of success and how lack is used as a success prevention mechanism that I talked about in the book. But then there’s another step. And this is what I mean by MAGIC,
Brian – So when you go through this healing process, you are going to reap the rewards of success and master that skill set as you become who you’re supposed to, to become a 2.0 version of yourself. So choose to grow, choose to go on the Self Mastery journey, choose to get it done. And when you do that, you will master this skill set and will have exponential benefits as you go through not only you will become whole, it will have exponential benefits on the people around you, finances and so
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